Charles David Carpenter

June 1, 1938 – October 15, 2026

He was Charles to his beloved wife, Betsy; Charlie to his friends; Coach Carpenter to generations of students and players; and Daddy to his daughters. Charles David Carpenter was known by many names, reflecting a life filled with family, friendship, football, faith, and stories worth telling.

Charles passed away October 15, 2026, at age 88. Born June 1, 1938, in Konawa, Oklahoma, he was the only child of Troy “Rip” and Gladys Carpenter.

Charles attended Ada High School, where he played football and competed in track. He continued his education at Oklahoma Baptist University (OBU) on a track scholarship, competing in decathlon, pole vault, and high jump. He set school records in several events that stood for years and competed in the 1959 Kansas Relays. He earned a bachelor’s degree in education and physical education from OBU, followed by a master’s degree from the University of Central Oklahoma.

During college, Charles spent several summers as a counselor at Kanakuk Camps, an experience that helped shape his Christian faith and leadership.

At OBU, Charles met Mary Elizabeth “Betsy” Pearce. They married September 1, 1962, beginning 64 years of marriage, two daughters, three grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren. Betsy remained his devoted partner throughout his coaching career and their life together.

Charles devoted more than three decades to education and athletics. He taught history and psychology and began coaching at Taft Junior High School before moving to Northwest Classen High School. There, he coached football, track, and swimming, leading his swimming teams to four Mid-State championships.

In 1967, he joined U.S. Grant High School, becoming head football coach in 1969. His team won the 1972 Mid-State Conference championship and advanced to the state semifinals.

In 1973, Coach Carpenter became head football and track coach at Mustang High School, where he led the Broncos for 20 years. His football teams won six conference championships, made eight state playoff appearances, and reached the 1980 Class 3A state championship game against Ada, where his own athletic career began.

For several summers, Coach Carpenter also worked at University of Oklahoma football camps, helping high school athletes sharpen their skills and develop as players.

He retired in 1993 with a career record of 168 wins, 99 losses, and one tie. His honors included six Conference Coach of the Year awards and Daily Oklahoman Coach of the Year recognition in 1980 and 1983. He coached the 1989 Oklahoma All-State game and, throughout his career, coached 20 All-State, 10 Oil Bowl, and 30 All-City players.

Beyond championships and honors, Coach Carpenter was known for encouraging, challenging, and guiding young athletes. His influence continued long after players left the field. Mustang High School honored his contributions upon retirement, and he was later inducted into the Mustang High School Hall of Fame.

Following retirement, Charles and Betsy built a beautiful home in Fort Smith, Arkansas, near Betsy’s sister, Carolyn, and her husband, Bob Gillson. The couples shared a close friendship and enjoyed time with their nephews and families.

Charles enjoyed fly-fishing and woodworking. Using a pattern passed down from his father, he crafted wooden Jesus fish and gave them to others as an expression of his faith.

Outgoing, clever, and a gifted storyteller, Charles had an extraordinary memory. He recalled historical facts, players’ names, games from decades earlier, and personal details about family and friends. His love of football never faded. His three favorite teams all wore red: Mustang Broncos, Oklahoma Sooners, and Kansas City Chiefs.

Charles leaves behind his beloved wife, Mary Elizabeth “Betsy” Carpenter; daughters Beth Hollars and Amy Wilson; grandchildren Riley Hollars, Mackenzie Hollars, and Memorie Wilson; and great-grandchildren Julian Mettling, Hazel Mettling, and Elliott Hollars. He is also survived by Bob and Carolyn Gillson; nephews and their families, Rob and Wrenne Gillson and daughters Lexi and Emily; Andy and Georgia Gillson; and David and Jessica Gillson and sons Daniel and Grant.

No matter what name you called him, you knew a man who had something to teach, a story to tell, and a way of making an impression. His influence reached far beyond the football field, through generations of students, players, friends, and family.

Memorial service arrangements will be announced at a later date.

Arrangements: Cullen Funeral Home, Inc., Raymore, Missouri 816.322.5278